it totally sucks to be a guy. why?

LMAO.
ok, this is not a sexist post aight, ppl?
instead, it's a post to respect the male gender for all the sacrifices that they've made or are expected to make thus far.

so wait lah. be patient, and continue reading.

it totally sucks to be a guy, because in every sense and every way, guys are surrounded by boundaries, where if they step over em', they're either pointed and laughed at and called gay, or just thought of as not man enough.

i give you a few examples ok?
but NOTE. i'm not trying to condemn ur species or put you down. it's just that i think i would never survive as a guy, having known and experienced that joys that i can have as a girl. obviously, you may think otherwise, but hey, i'm just stating my opinion, eh??? hehehe..so this is not in anyway, meant to offend or insult anyone. just remember that k??

a) FASHION-WISE
a normal guy (or expected to be normal), wears normal big baggy t-shirts or shirts and big baggy pants.
the t-shirts must be either collared, or round-neck.
if they have a damn hot body, then wearing a slightly tighter t-shirt is acceptable.
anything out of the ordinary, is considered gay.

fashionwise, guys who don't obey by the unwritten rule are considered faggots (other more polite ppl call them metrosexual).

to define the term faggot/metrosexual, ppl would say that they are guys who dare express themselves, and would not mind going out in any way to make themselves look good, by SHOWING that they care, instead of pretending that they don't.

for example, i'd say a metrosexual man would be someone who uses facial products, who uses branded clothing and who go out of their way in expressing themselves, with big prints or sorts on their t-shirts or with a weirder colour scheme, and are not afraid in following the latest fashion(which would include things like carrying big bags around on their shoulder).

a metrosexual man when asked, do you use anything on your face?
he would answer, why yes. i use SK II skin whitening range along with L'oreal's ............ so on so on (ok la, i admit. i don't know any of this facial products thingie, coz i myself don't use them, which explains the state of my face... -_-")

on the other hand, a guy who considers himself normal by the society's norm, would/might be using facial products, may/may not wear branded clothing which are either plain or with un-obvious prints or patterns, whom will never be seen caught with a big bag on his shoulders, and would only dare wear light pink t-shirts.

a "normal" man when asked, do you use anything on your face?
he would answer, no/sort-of. and he'll prolly change the topic, or say that he is using something temporarily or that it was something he found lying around the house, or his mom's or bla bla bla bla...

but u get what i mean.

v-necklines, not accepted by majority of the guys.
sleeveless, some say are gay, some say okay.
jeans, cannot be tight, must be hanging loosely to the waist.
ladidadida..
it's like, the total opposite of a fashion statement in the male world.

in the female world, women try to make fashion statements. wear the brightest colour, wear the biggest earrings, wear the shiniest necklace, etc etc
there're so many things to choose from, so many styles..girls try to stand out in crowds and look nice...seee????
it's pretty hard to be called boyish (fashion wise) if you're a girl, unless all you wear is a big t-shirt and big pants.

whereas in the male world, all everyone does it to lie low and play safe. they try NOT to make a fashion statement. they blend with majority.

TRUE?

don wear bright pink shirts!! after ppl stare and say i'm gay
don carry big bag!! after ppl stare and say i'm gay
don wear V-line!! after ppl stare and say i'm gay
-_-"

so boring rite?? when guys go shopping, there's not much to choose from. i mean, your style has pretty much been determined, and your colour range is limited along with the type of prints. so one tshirt doesn't differ much to another in a guy's wardrobe. as long as the criteria baggy and un-gay are fulfiled, TICK!! SAFE!!

doesn't it show you why most guys DON'T enjoy shopping? and why metrosexual ppl do??? and why females enjoy it too...

so unless you're metrosexual (which means that you're daring enough to venture away from the norm of the male species), it totally sucks to be a guy because you're bounded by the unwritten rule of what you SHOULD and SHOULDN'T wear, and can never enjoy the wondrous emotions of shopping.

p/s: ok, this is getting too long. i'm gonna break this post down into a few posts, i'll continue another day :P lazy rediiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii -_-"