the TRUE man

*edit: my god my god, i just updated my links and REARRANGED everybody's name so that it's in alphabetical order, and rewrote names coz before this, i put them in an alternate caps kinda way. like AbCdEfG. now it's plain abcdefg. nicer. HAH!
BABI I'M WASTINg MY tIme LAH!!
it took me soooo long.
and i only managed to update links that i CAN remember and i added in surnames that i CAN remember..i forgot some already.
i'm soo soo sorry for my failing memory..
and it doesn't help that tiba tiba my right click option couldn't work on blogger and i had to type it out!!!!
shiat.
what the hell am i doing with my time!!!!!!!! *

ok, it's damn weird because at the beginning, i was just reading chris' blog about truly being a man by being decisive and i left him a super long comment.

and at the end of the comment, i decided to just post it as a post on my blog instead.

you can read chris' post *here*. my comment is still there though. hahaaha

factors preventing the boys from being decisive
- BEING A CROWD PLEASER
- FEAR OF REJECTION
- FEAR OF BEING WRONG
- WANTING TO KEEP OPTIONS OPEN.

i believe, a TRUE man, is a man who can carry out all foresaid characters in an average way.

who tends to please the crowd but yet remembers his own stand - half a crowd pleaser

who has fear of rejection, but is brave enough to admit and be open to it, but yet modest about his wins and accepting of his loss - half a coward of fear

who has the fear of being wrong, but the confidence of being right - half the fear of being wrong

to keep options open....well....we're still young...so..

a true man SHOULD appreciate what he has and keep it with tender loving care.
a true man SHOULD know when to keep his options open and when to shut it close for life.

a true MAN knows this and admits to it.

honestly, we girls are also pretty indecisive about things like this as well, so who am i to say what a true man is or is not?

but it IS true when we say that a man has to be smart, articulate, caring, good husband material, sensitive, charming bla bla bal..but he has to have a hold of himself.
to not give in to every want, and to learn to stand up sometimes.
a standing view point is very impressive at times..

(ok larh..so this is wat i think....someone from the opposite sex:P)

YES, it IS damn hard being a guy.

THANK god i'm not one.

HHAHAHAHAHHAA

but then again, this world isn't perfect..

so most probably the PERFECT guy doesn't exist.

either that, or he's happily married, dead, or unborn.

sigh...